At the Atchuela wedding reception with some young men and YSA |
Anyway, I really enjoyed our online chat on Christmas,
but was disappointed that the connection was so bad. I just hope that I'm assigned in an area in
May where the connection is decent so that if we can do it again, but if not,
I'm good with just a phone call. That
would be a lot easier. We had a fun
Christmas this year, even though we practically had no lessons because everyone
is either gone or busy. However, we were able to find three part-member
families on Christmas Day, so I'm glad that some people were home. We found one when a 13 year-old ran at us and
asked if we were members of the Church, because her mom's a member and they
didn't know where the church was. Her
name is Ana Sophia. Ana said that her
family has lived here for a year. I
pointed out to her that they actually live within walking distance of the
chapel. She was surprised to learn that
the beautiful white church near their home is an LDS chapel. Ana said that she is not yet a member,
because she was really young when her mom was baptized and the she asked if she
could be taught. Ana is awesome. We arranged to teach her at her home. Ana participated a lot in the lessons and
told us that she appreciated that we took time to listen and answer her
questions. That's the thing with teaching,
or being a missionary - the lessons that we teach aren't for us, but for the
investigators. It's THEIR progression
and salvation. We can't force anyone to
change or follow Jesus Christ (more on that later). Ana will definitely become one of our new
focuses this January. We are very
excited about that.
James' baptism didn't happen this weekend. We weren't able to teach him for over a week
because he was never home, but they were also busy this week at the house. His wife left last week and is now in Taiwan,
so it's just him and their son at the house.
We haven't finished all of the lessons yet, so that's also another
reason why. He's always home now with no
more distractions, so we'll be able to teach him all of the lessons in time for
his new baptismal date (Jan 19). James
is an awesome guy and has really progressed a lot. The only problem is that their son is a bit
spoiled and doesn't like attending primary, and always wants to go home after
sacrament meeting, which is frustrating since we want James to attend all three
meetings. (I guess I was a bit like that
in my primary days, when I did not like to sit still and gave everyone
fits. I don't know. You guys be the judge of that. Thanks for tolerating me all those
years. Just think where I would be right
now if you didn't ;) haha.)
One of our less actives came to church for the first time
yesterday after we taught her the day before and told her to come to
church. Her husband is not a member and
is a severe alcoholic. She said she is tired
of him and his drinking and wants him to change. She just yells at him and tells him to
change, with of course no effect. We
told her that if we want to change a person or a person to change, then we have
to change ourselves first and then they'll either recognize the change or the
Lord will soften their heart and slowly change them or give opportunities to
change. She said that she prayed in
another church for help, because it's closer to her house. (I can’t begin to tell you how many times
I've heard that excuse from less active members since I've been on my
mission.) We told her that if she wants
her husband to change, then she must first change by returning to the Savior
and following His commandments (which includes activity in the Church). We ended the lesson thinking that we offended
her, but she just said with a smile, "I'm coming tomorrow, and I'll be
the first one there just like I was before." Sure enough . . . she was.
We also had a member bring their neighbor to church, so we'll also have
another investigator to teach in the new year.
(The neighbor stayed for all three hours and was really interested. That is always very exciting!)
We attended another wedding in the ward on Friday. It was for the Atchuela family. We love them very much. Their daughter, who was less active for awhile, married another less active, and they have been coming to church every week since they were engaged back in October and plan on getting sealed in the temple next year, so that's way awesome.
Alright Brad, I gave the APs something this morning to
give to the Angeles Zone Leaders to deliver to Sister Pink to give to you and
Whitney. (Did you get all that?) The Zone Leaders have a conference tomorrow,
so they'll get it then. (Things I would
like to send home to the family.) Pres.
Martino said that he does not want us to meet while you are here visiting with
Whitney and Beckham, so I am sad to say that we will not be getting together
during your January visit. But, like Dad
said, it’s not the end of the world and we will see each other soon enough.
Brother & Sister Atchuela with their daughter, Carren |
Atchuela wedding reception outside at the chapel |
Thanks for the recent pictures from Pine Valley. It looks like they got a lot of snow this
year. The sledding looks so fun! But, I can’t imagine being in snow right
now. I’m afraid I’m going to be a real
wimp when it comes to cold weather after my mission. I’ve forgotten what that’s like. (It’s so HOT here!) Glad to hear you all had a good visit at the
cabin. Dad, I cannot remember the answer
to those security questions for the BYU website. Sorry.
(I guess I should have written those down somewhere.)
Alright. I guess
that'll be my final email for 2012. I
hope that you all enjoy the New Year and not go crazy. (Eh, go ahead and do whatever you want - just
stay healthy, happy, worthy and safe.
haha.) Mahal na mahal ko
kayo. Ingat.
Elder Jordan "Peace out 2012" Royal